In Love & In Bed
There is a creative flair extraordinaire to the Libra.
You love sensual things that ring of exquisiteness. This is true in your relationships too.
Though you yearn for the ‘happily ever after’ scenario there is always one part of you that is yours alone.
Though balance and peace are the two things you most seek, once your Heart Chakra resonates with another your mind becomes the love child of Speed Racer and the Roadrunner.
Your mental calisthenics over the whole “he/she loves me, he/she loves me not” thing could be an Olympic sport and you its Gold Medal, world record setting champion!
Libra Compatibility Table of Contents
- In Love
- In Bed
- Facts & Metaphysical Associations
- Love Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
- Return to all Zodiac Compatibility
- Return to all Zodiac Signs
Libra in Love
As a Libra you are naturally very relationship oriented. However, that relationship must maintain the delicate balance that you crave.
Since many people can’t maintain an even keel you sometimes find love is difficult for you. Even with all your charms and your ability to truly invest in another person, many times you find yourself heading for the door because others don’t sustain that 50-50 give and take that’s so necessary for you to be truly happy.
It is not hard for a Libra to find partners, but you also generally don’t mind leaving when things turn sour and there’s always someone waiting in the wings for you.
This is one sign that definitely has a full dance card until they find that perfect mate. The key thing is remembering that no one, including you, is perfect. Don’t rush into things. Take your time and discern what each of you brings to the table of romance. This gives your partner time to really step up, and also provides you with perspective.
Ask yourself: can you live with the little flaws for the greater goal of a solid relationship?
Many people will find themselves naturally attracted to you. That’s because you’ve got great manners and attentiveness.
You are, however, insistent about being the driver in your relationships. If you can’t maintain control it’s a bit of a turn off. Nonetheless you have a unique aptitude in that you can develop a relationship with any sign of the Zodiac.
In relationships, you do best with a person who accepts your independence. This is a natural protective mechanism as is your habit of being slow to speak.
It’s important to think through your responses for the greatest impact. Words are your gift, and you know how to use them with lovers. You also expect a partner who talks mindfully – not making promises they can’t keep.
You appreciate a partner who fusses over their appearance for you and showers you with romance. This is not simply superficial – it is deeply spiritual and an effort that’s returned with a flair so long as it doesn’t get in the way of someone else’s needs.
Libra in Bed
Sex is essential to a happy, healthy Libra. Flirting, sensuality and physicality all roll together for this Astrological sign.
In many ways sex is more a mental exercise for you. Each word, movement, act must be done in a refined manner.
You’re a thoughtful lover in that you’re open to new things but would never think of pushing someone into an uncomfortable scenario.
The main caution for a Libra is the propensity to mix up love with foreplay and sex. The whole production of preparing for making love is just as important as the act itself.
Small things matter from the setting to the curves of your lover’s body. There is never any crudeness in the Libra’s repertoire.
When you’re in a physical relationship with a Libra remember it’s quality over quantity. They like to take it slow, cuddle, make pillow talk and generally have a relaxed, subtle approach to passion.
Do not rush them or they become aggressive and will turn off like a light switch. Every nuance of this sophisticated experience is one to which the Libra responds, particularly when it comes to pampering their partner. They do need that attentiveness returned!
Libra Facts & Metaphysical Associations
Dates: September 23 – October 22
Symbol: The Scales
Key Phrase: “I Balance”
Birthstone: Sapphire (September); Opal (October)
Number Vibration Numerology: 6
Flower: Rose, Cosmos, Hydrangeas
Color: Indigo Blue
Chakra: Heart (Anahata)
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Dog
Funny Chinese Zodiac Twin: Dog
Tarot Card Association: Justice (Libra), The Empress (Venus)
Healing Crystals: Agate, Carnelian, Coral, Emerald, Jade, Peridot, Smokey Quartz
Celebrity Libras: Sting, TS Eliot, Ray Charles, Catherine Zeta-Jones, Julie Andrews, Mickey Mantle
Libra Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
Aries and Libra
The Libra and Aries match is one best described as passive-aggressive, with the Libra being passive.
Aries will be very attractive to the ever-charming Libra and Libra has a way of banking all that Aries fire, but their relationship is a very bumpy one because Aries constantly wants to win rather than find a middle ground, and they really don’t care about propriety.
Taurus and Libra
A love of beautiful things brings these two together and the ruling planet Venus keeps them together. It’s as if the Goddess of love designed the two of you for each other. Both have romance in their veins, you enjoy going out together and eating great food and all things cultural.
The only caution here is that this couple must learn to speak about problems when they arise rather than letting them fester.
Even so, this is a very happy pairing filled with symmetry and cooperation.
Gemini and Libra
Like a warm spring wind, the Gemini and Libra couple moves easily through the forest of love. Being Air signs they understand the way each other thinks.
This is a very soulful connection and one that may have started in previous lives.
Gemini will always be a little more liberated than the Libra but with so many other fundamental principles matching that’s not a problem.
This is the couple of fairy tales.
Cancer and Libra
Cancer and Libra together is about two souls living in different Astral dimensions.
Cancer, being ruled by the moon, is anything but balanced. Venus influences Libra’s manner of treating relationships as a whole.
These two laugh together but they also fight like cats and dogs over socialization, possessiveness and extravagance. Effectively neither one of you understand the other’s thought process and it’s just frustrating.
You are better off as imaginative associates than lovers.
Leo and Libra
Curtains up; Light the Lights – here comes an Astrological power couple! This couple has such dynamic connections.
They live life fully, they laugh at all the right times, they strive to please each other and just generally adore their partner down to his or her toes.
This pairing has no trouble with unfaithfulness. They are romantic and playful, with solid values that hold the relationship on firm footing.
In summary: Dazzling, Darling!
Virgo and Libra
Somehow no matter how hard you try you can’t quite seem to complete the puzzle of this relationship. Something’s missing.
Virgo seems too realistic and hell-bent on perfection for Libra and Libra is too social and diplomatic for their Virgo partner.
Initially there’s a connection that comes from mutual appreciation toward the finer things but at the end of the day there will always be a disconnect.
Libra and Libra
If you’re looking for bountiful bliss then seek out another Libra. Your spirits seek harmony and true understanding. Both of you have creativity, charisma, idealism and excellent taste in the arts.
You two can sit and talk for hours on end and never run out of subject matter. Every day is a new adventure in pleasing your partner and them doing likewise.
This is a sensitive, caring exchange as natural as the sun in the morning. Enjoy the sunny side of the street together.
Scorpio and Libra
Infuriating and frustrating. You seem to rub each other the wrong way more times than not. Scorpio quickly grows impatient with your bubbly attitude and Libra has no idea how to handle the dark side of Scorpio.
The initial attraction exists because Scorpio sees in you a gracefulness, but all that “thinking” instead of “feeling” creates static between you. The overall differences between you far outnumbers any physical attraction, which only lasts so long.
Bottom line? Meh. Move on.
Sagittarius and Libra
Love has put a spell on you! The Libra and Sagittarius couple is bewitchingly wonderful!
Being very positive, fun-loving conversationalists doesn’t hurt. You love challenging each other mentally. You will never tire of social outings together, or of each other’s company.
The only caution is that your Sagittarian partner may have a quick, sharp tongue that hurts because they didn’t think through the conversation.
You may also find that the two of you get a little too comfortable, forgetting that a good relationship grows.
Capricorn and Libra
For the Libra and Capricorn connection to work you must both get your priorities in line. You have a very challenging relationship here. Your spirits intertwine harmoniously on matters of beauty and socialization.
Where you clash is on topics of work vs. play. Libra likes going out and puts down business when the right situation comes up. Capricorn isn’t prone to that, and they also come off as bossy for the easy going Libra.
Moving these two signs into a relationship is difficult, but when it DOES work it usually withstands the test of time.
Aquarius and Libra
Of all other Astrological signs this one rocks it out!
Here you have two highly inventive souls who understand each other effortlessly. They wine, dine and romance each other and seek a partner that expands their lives.
Unlike a raging fire, this relationship starts out as a small spark of friendship and then just keeps growing. They are well matched in every aspect of life, including the bedroom.
You rarely fight and are the Archetype of Lovers.
Pisces and Libra
Pisces and Libra are two lovers who are also good friends, sharing much in the way of ideals and approaches to life. They sigh dreamily when thinking about one another, and connect in mind, body and soul.
This is more than a simple courtship – it exemplifies more traditional relationships, moving slowly toward commitment with caution and caring.
With the right elements in each other’s charts you may never want to walk away.