In Love & In Bed
There is nothing so complex or scorching hot as a Scorpio in love and in bed.
Ruled by the Sacral Chakra, this zodiac sign shows affection with the entirety of their mind, body and spirit.
While they have an innate penchant for leaving scorched earth in their wake when betrayed, the flip side of the Scorpio personality is one fiercely dedicated to the person whom they trust and adore.
Once they allow their heart to be captured (because it will always be their choice), the Scorpio can become a veritable self appointed love slave in every sense of the word.
Scorpio Compatibility Table of Contents
- In Love
- In Bed
- Facts & Metaphysical Associations
- Love Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
- Return to all Zodiac Compatibility
- Return to all Zodiac Signs
Scorpio in Love
A Scorpio’s two favorite words are “Oh!” and “Ahhhh” so a relationship with one will be many things but never boring. It seems they always have a surprise up their sleeves, particularly when it comes to sex. They will keep people guessing, often in playful and creative ways but mostly trying to figure out where he/she learned how to do ‘that’!
For those wanting to capture the heart of a Scorpio remain a little mysterious but also let them know that you’re dependable, passionate and love sex (because sex and passion are separate yet conjoined concepts). Trust is a huge keynote to Scorpio relationships. Once you build confidence, your partner becomes the sexiest and most intense of all the signs.
When you meet a Scorpio who catches your eye, be aware that they have probably already experienced a fair amount of heartbreak. Oddly enough they come out of it even better than before – with even more charm and charisma (if that’s possible!). It’s as if the extremes of relationships actually hone the Scorpio soul, and they’re well known for following their heart over logic, which sometimes lands them in another fire.
The Scorpio love relationship is frequently tempestuous. Your partner may show jealousy or try to hold on too tight. That’s because this sign has a tendency to attract conflict unwittingly, but the make-up sex – WOW!
For the long haul, Scorpios are most compatible with partners who were also born under water signs – Pisces and Cancer.
Scorpio in Bed
Should you ask a Scorpio how much or if they enjoy sex, a wry smirk will slowly (oh, sooooo slowly) form.
Then he or she will level their legendary gaze at you and will you to ‘know’.
When you finally exhale, you’ll likely find that you crave a cigarette – even if you’ve never smoked.
There is no such thing as too much sex for a Scorpio. As a lover he/she is very accomplished in bedroom, on the floor, in the shower… well, you get the idea.
If you’re dating A Scorpio, be ready for an adventure filled with spontaneity and sensual instincts that will knock you off your feet because they make love to life itself.
The Scorpio approach to sex isn’t merely lust, it’s almost ceremonial. The physical union elevates the Scorpion beyond the material plane to the spiritual realms. Orgasm is a moment when they connect with Higher awareness.
If you find you’re a little foggy headed after having made love with a Scorpio, it’s because they unleashed their Kundalini energy, wrapped it around your very soul and took you on the ascended, celestial journey with them.
This star sign tends toward aggressiveness – be they men or women. Though there is a time and place for feathers and soft music, Scorpios are far more inclined to get out the heavy metal and wrestle until you’re both spent.
That physicality is a huge turn on for your Scorpio (and be ready for another round after only a short interlude). Sex stimulates the Scorpio – it gets their blood pumping and recharges them like little else.
Scorpio Facts & Metaphysical Associations
Dates: October 23- November 22
Symbol: The Scorpion
Key Phrase: “I Desire”
Planet: Pluto (Mars)
Birthstone: Opal (October); Citrine (November)
Number Vibration Numerology: 9
Flower: Chrysanthemum & Rhododendron
Color: Deep red
Chakra: Sacral/Naval Chakra (Svadhisthana)
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Boar/Pig
Funny Chinese Zodiac Twin: Boar/Pig
Tarot Card Association: Death (Scorpio), The Tower (Mars)
Healing Crystals: Amber, Aquamarine, Bloodstone, Jasper, Malachite, Ruby
Celebrity Scorpios: Grace Slick is a mega Scorpio with 5 – count them five – planets in Scorpio. Others are Shere Hite, Ti Grace Atkinson, Sally Field, Leonardo DiCaprio, Charles Prince of Wales and Pablo Picasso
Scorpio Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
Aries and Scorpio
An Aries typically takes the lead in a relationship. He or she finds the natural charm of a Scorpio very attractive, nearly to the point of distraction.
The Scorpio makes a great support unit for the Aries personality, freely offering passion and compassion. Just remain watchful of that secretive Scorpion nature to avoid arguments and misunderstandings.
While Aries likes a good mystery, sometimes they just want Scoprio to “hit the mark” without all the suspense. That includes in lovemaking, which should make the Scorpio’s underlying erotic Sagittarian spirit quite content.
Taurus and Scorpio
When they say “opposites attract” they were talking about a Taurus and Scorpio match-up.
These two have strong personalities and no fears of commitment. If the Scorpio can let Taurus take the lead, it makes for a happier balance, and it gives the relationship greater potential.
There is a great deal that each person can learn from the Taurus and Scorpio fling, be it long term or just a great tryst. Taurus is very honest about physical, emotional and mental needs so you feel appreciated and never has to second guess.
Gemini and Scorpio
This pair is definitely intensely attracted at their first date.
Nonetheless, even with all that fire the Gemini – Scorpio couple finds themselves highly challenged to make a go of things.
Nonetheless, there are just way too many differences, and the dual personality of the Gemini (let alone their inability to understand jealous tendencies) is enough to drive the Scorpio personality away. Well, after the verbal blitzkrieg has ceased that is.
Cancer and Scorpio
These two water signs flow well together.
Both take the relationship seriously and have no intention of dallying with affections. This is a union with a great prospective – particularly in bed!
Just like the ebb and flow of the ocean, Scorpio and Cancer naturally respond to each other physically without needing a lot of guidance.
In day-to-day affairs it’s better if Scorpio strategizes and Cancer acts as a support unit.
Leo and Scorpio
This can be an arduous relationship.
While both the Leo and the Scorpio have fixed loyalties, they are also incredibly obstinate. There’s little flexibility here, so the “honeymoon” phase of courting isn’t likely to last long. This pairing is characterized by sizzle, drama and frizzle complete with a fair amount of unwanted baggage. You might be better off to avoid this from the get-go.
Virgo and Scorpio
This couple frequently starts off on the path of friendship before moving deeper, which is healthiest for both parties.
Neither is ready to trust quickly. Once established, however, mutual confidence leads to a safe, honest and appreciative relationship.
There’s a quiet knowingness about this match and one that may span many lifetimes for both of you .
Libra and Scorpio
The Libra – Scorpio connection can be expressed as soulful. There is a true spiritual connection between you two, with passions running deep.
Libras naturally love the Scorpio’s mystery and Scorpio finds the Libras charm disarming. This is the couple that walks hand in hand along a quiet, winding road and passers buy say, “awe!”
As for sex? Oh-la-la!
Scorpio and Scorpio
This is either going to be the romance of all time to come or a tragedy that leaves behind two shattered people and lots and lots of scorched earth.
Initially this affair defines hot and steamy – it’s very sensual in its making. What happens from here depends a lot on how open and trusting the two remain with each other.
The Scorpio’s psychic ability to communicate without words may prove to be the saving grace for this pairing.
In other words, let your fingers do the talking!
Sagittarius and Scorpio
Sagittarius sees Scorpios as a great challenge and its one they’re willing to take head on. After all, the Scorpio persona is an enigma – the mysterious puzzle for which he/she yearns.
However, Scorpio may find the Archer too quiet and undefended for the Scorpion’s traditional prudent mannerisms.
In the end Scorpio may bear too much responsibility for keeping this relationship in gear.
Capricorn and Scorpio
The Capricorn finds himself or herself pleased with the ease at which a Scorpio sneaks through their normally layered defenses.
The Capricorn soul makes a quiet, loyal companion – something the Scorpio in you appreciates.
This is a couple that needs to take their time in letting the relationship blossom naturally, however. Otherwise it becomes a game of push-me-pull-you that no one wins.
Aquarius and Scorpio
If there is one thing for certain – the Aquarius – Scorpio couple is anything BUT dull.
There’s an interesting dance between the calm sensitivity of an Aquarian and the intensity of the Scorpio, but somehow it works; likely because many astrologers think of Aquarius, The Water Bearer as the hidden or lost 4th Water Sign.
The deep Aquarian empathy touches the Scorpio lover in a way that surprises this normally unflappable astrological sign.
Pisces and Scorpio
This match is among the most sacred of unions.
Both the Pisces and Scorpio feel things deeply, especially each other. They care honestly, have creative ways of problem solving and a passion between them that’s only rivaled by the Scorpio-Scorpio connection.
This is the quintessential hearts-and-flowers couple – terminal romance (complete with violins) fills the air. Together, their combined energy is surely the romance muse of the ages.
Quite frankly it would be intolerable if it just weren’t so darned adorable.