In Love & In Bed
If they took out a personals ad and titled it honestly, it would have to read “Desperately Seeking Perfection”.
Now, shopping for a soul mate in this manner is certainly going to make for many lonely nights and lots of money spent on batteries.
But bless their little pea picky, picky hearts a Virgo simply can’t help themselves.
While they may not know it, and whether male or female, Virgos come into this world already in love and nobody else will do but “The One”.
However, if Virgo is not careful, they can squander their lives pursuing a phantom partner who can never give them what it is they are truly lusting for in a mate, in themselves and in the world – Perfection.
Virgo Compatibility Table of Contents
- In Love
- In Bed
- Facts & Metaphysical Associations
- Love Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
- Return to all Zodiac Compatibility
- Return to all Zodiac Signs
Virgo in Love
Virgos in love seem to be quite a mystery. They’re not easily won over and guard their heart cautiously. Nonetheless, once they do find a partner, they give generously to the relationship.
In dating a Virgo remember that they’re somewhat of the perfectionist. We already covered this but it bears going into in more detail…
This Star Sign does everything completely from start to finish. That picky nature may feel overbearing sometimes but the rewards are pretty impressive. From the flirting and courtship process to the first date and sexual inroads, you’ll find a Virgo quite lavish in their intentions.
These people put care and thought into every aspect of a plan, focusing on what they believe inspires you. Better still, if the relationship lasts their attentive nature never wanes. For them doing it right is part of the turn on, and seeing the joy from their efforts reflected in your reactions even more so.
Virgos have this uncanny knack for gathering details. That includes the wants and needs of their partner. It’s refreshing, but a little spooky in terms of accuracy. It can take some partners a while to get used to the all-seeing Virgo eyes. Very little gets by the Virgo, and when they recognize a problem they will always be present with support and a helpful solution.
If you are the Virgo in a relationship just be careful about the way in which you present information. The little things you recognize so naturally a lot of people completely miss.
That means you may come across as overly-critical even when trying to help!
Thankfully when that happens most of your partners are quick to forgive simply because you have never been about the drama. You want a well-grounded relationship based on reality – something healthy, logical and with just enough romance to keep it interesting.
As a Virgo you are slow to love. Everything is one step at a time. There’s no leaping off of the lover’s cliff for you. Control and comprehension matter in your exchanges. That means you may express your love differently than that to which your partner is accustom.
Trust in your desire to please.
Remain attentive and aware and let passion express itself without being pushed. So doing helps you find a lover who gives as good as he or she gets.
It’s not uncommon for Virgo to date a couple duds before they find someone with patience. You resist love, sometimes even purposely picking partners that you know won’t work out. This ties at least partially to your uncertain self-esteem, always expecting more from yourself than anyone else.
It’s interesting that many Virgos (contrary to the idea of the Virgin) are a wild child in bed, but when it comes to marriage they look for something less flashy and more stable.
The best potential partners for you are Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius and another Virgo.
Virgo in Bed
One of the wonderful parts of the Virgo nature is their honesty about sex. They will not put on airs in the bedroom. Flirting opens the door to foreplay. Foreplay leads to slow, attentive intercourse.
This is a lover who likes someone smart, humorous, prompt and savvy. We cannot overstate the ‘prompt’ part.
Many times Virgo prefers their mate making the first move, but no matter who starts things they will be sure to pay close attention to anything that gets a positive response. For them it truly is about pleasuring you.
As a Virgo you have probably had your fair share of wounds from previous relationships. That’s part of the reason a strong, forward lover works so long as they are not uncouth.
Additionally you probably see sex as something secondary or tertiary to a good relationship. There isn’t the huge drive like Scorpio, and you’re honestly seeking something different. You want a partner that appeals to your senses, one that doesn’t rush sex but savors it like a fine wine.
This approach gives your heart time to open and experience something more.
Virgo Facts & Metaphysical Associations
Dates: August 22- September 22
Symbol: The Virgin
Key Phrase: “I Analyze”
Birthstone: Peridot (August); Sapphire (September)
Number Vibration Numerology: 5
Flower: Morning Glory
Color: Navy Blue
Chakra: Root or Base (Muladhara)
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Rooster
Funny Chinese Zodiac Twin: Rooster
Tarot Card Association: The Hermit (Virgo), The Magician (Mercury)
Healing Crystals: Agate, Carnelian, Peridot, Rhodochrosite, Ruby
Celebrity Virgos: Michael Jackson, BB King, Amy Winehouse, Sophia Loren, Prince Harry, Beyonce Knowles
Virgo Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
Aries and Virgo
Your Aries partner is bolder than you in relationships, sometimes to the point of impulsiveness. Sure this is exciting, and you enjoy the Aries panache for adventure.
Nonetheless underneath it all your Virgo sensibilities feel antsy about all this unpredictability. Most often you’ll get to the end of your rope and just let this one go.
Taurus and Virgo
Thanks to the grounding the Earth Element provides in a Virgo and Taurus relationship these two can get-on pretty well.
You understand the Bull’s watchful and practical nature and really appreciate his or her focus on creating secure relationships. You talk through problems more than your Taurus partner, a habit that they don’t share, but this alone isn’t enough to put your love life off track.
Love’s meter reading: Satisfying
Gemini and Virgo
Both signs are ruled by the planet Mercury so Virgo and Gemini should communicate well together.
Gemini is more sociable and Virgo can be quiet and introspective but there are a lot of interests they have in common and this could make for a reasonably good
These two signs are “Chatty Kathys” and like nothing more than animated conversation. Gemini draws you out while your Virgo energy gives the twin some food for thought.
The biggest struggle this couple faces is the Virgo sensitivity that goes right over Gemini’s head. Even so with a little thoughtful tweaking this relationship has a chance.relationship.
Cancer and Virgo
The Virgo and Cancer connection boils down to a battle of the head vs. heart. You are the practical one while Cancer is very emotional and romantic. Even so, there’s something about Cancer that attracts you like a moth to a flame.
Cancer has a knack for truly understanding you with few words.
If you can avoid both signs tendency toward criticism you could find true love.
Leo and Virgo
Dating a Leo may leave Virgo feeling very insecure.
Leo wants larger than life physical demonstrations while you take things a lot more slowly and look for the intellectual connection.
At first you’ll find Leo’s outlook on life very attractive, but it won’t take long before tensions arise.
This pairing might work best as playmates, not life-mates.
Virgo and Virgo
There is no question the two of you keep a tidy home.
The commonalities here give this couple a good chance at a future. You like security, your sensitive to each other’s needs, both like socialization and you’re compatible in bed.
The major drawback with two Virgos is the tendency to find fault in nearly everything including each other.
The success of this relationship depends heavily on determining what’s REALLY important.
Libra and Virgo
You look at your Libra and find yourself conflicted. The sign of The Scales knows how to listen and show compassion, which is something you crave.
Nonetheless Libra embraces a more laid back lifestyle than Virgo which doesn’t quite come up to your normal standards.
This has “blah” written all over it.
Scorpio and Virgo
On an intensity scale of 1-10 this comes out as an 11!
Virgo and Scorpio communicate on levels few souls dare to consider. There is a powerful unity here, supported by staunch loyalty and mutual respect.
Just remember that Scorpio is a bit more emotionally penetrating and you two will get on just fine.
Sagittarius and Virgo
Virgo and Sagittarius are like ships passing in the night, and it’s really better for the connection to stay that way.
The Archer simply does not grasp your pragmatic approach to life, and you have trouble keeping up with Sagittarian energy. The fire of the Archer yearns for independence while Virgo’s earthy nature wants constancy at home.
Effectively you’re so far apart socially it’s a wonder you even met.
Capricorn and Virgo
This is an excellent match-up!
The Virgo and Capricorn union is very like-minded and compatible. Neither one of you feels like rushing madly to the altar, but know deep down that’s exactly where you’ll end up.
Nearly every aspect of this duo comes naturally.
Chances of success: 8 out of a perfect score of 10.
Aquarius and Virgo
The detachment of the Aquarian spirit means this relationship is better suited toward friendship.
Virgo is conservative and have both feet in reality while an Aquarian tastes run toward spiritual or fanciful, driving you quite mad.
But if you work on a cooperative goal you can create wonders together.
Pisces and Virgo
If Virgo and Pisces have one mantra it’s “live and let live” followed by “relax and be”!
The two of you enjoy reaching out with assistance to your community as much as you enjoy supporting each other. Virgo manifests the Piscean brilliant dreams.
Generally this is a tangible, sustainable relationship filled with inventiveness, sensitivity and a refined appreciation for compromise.