In Love & In Bed
The gypsy sage who shatters suffocating societal rules with one wink.
The seer of a better tomorrow.
The revolutionary humanitarian which plows the road so the rest of us have an easier time ascending to the Golden Age.
This is Aquarius.
And what does all this have to do with their potential for compatibility?
The eleventh sign of the Zodiac Aquarius has reached the ‘been there, done that’ stage of soul initiation. Their soul’s time of being wrapped up in self is over and their focus is on the collective ‘we’.
Aquarius so loves all living beings that their hearts belong not to ‘one’ but to every one.
Aquarius Compatibility Table of Contents
- In Love
- In Bed
- Facts & Metaphysical Associations
- Compatibility With Each Sign
- Return to all Zodiac Compatibility
- Return to all Zodiac Signs
Aquarius Compatibility in Love
Those born under the sign of Aquarius are not quick with love or commitment. The initial stages of your relationships are flirty and lighthearted. That’s because you are a bit of a gypsy, often taking many lovers who find you somewhat of a curiosity. You always have unanticipated words and actions (heck, sometimes you even surprise yourself!).
As an Aquarius you have a natural need for space that your partners may not understand. It’s all fine and good for you to have down time and privacy, but communicate that need with your mates. The Aquarian internal clock isn’t like a lot of other Signs and you don’t want a fetching partner thinking you’ve deserted them completely. Being late, or early, or somewhere wholly unexpected is a normal occurrence for you, but the rest of society finds the whole package perplexing.
For those dating the Aquarian, you cannot be clingy. That will make the Water Bearer head for the hills in a heartbeat! You have to allow them dance to their own inner music. This sign doesn’t let people through their barriers until they’re darned good and ready. And jealous partners? Give up that notion right now.
As you get to know your Aquarian keep it entertaining. Don’t barrage with 101 questions about favorite colors and foods. The Aquarius Sign finds that whole convention bloody, well, dull.
On the other hand if you can find mutually enjoyable activities that have high sensual impact, that’s a good bridge builder.
Add a little erotic energy to the mix, and things start moving along. Things to avoid? Prejudice, squabbles, superficiality and arrogance just to name a few.
By the way, it’s really “OK” to be a little crazy and outside the box with an Aquarius. They live in that realm and enjoy partners who can dazzle the world one minute and be wholly sensitive the next.
Friendship is perhaps the one thing that this Star Sign treasures the most. Be a good companion to him or her on other levels than just romance, and also talk excitedly about other friends and their accomplishments. Aquarians find that kind of emotional connection very endearing and it’s another means of lowering their defenses.
Overall while Aquarius feels things deeply, they don’t show it. There is a protective wall that Aquarians hide behind particularly if they’re starting to feel vulnerable. They may even go so far as to push away the very person with whom they’re falling in love.
Aquarius Compatibility in Bed
As an Aquarian you see sexuality as a mental experiment. You try to continually invent new ways to pleasure your partners. Many people will find themselves completely engaging even though you’re slow to commit to a deep relationship, but fast to take a roll in the hay.
Your interaction with lovers depends heavily on your mood and where your thoughts travel that day. One time you’ll come out like a tiger and the next a skittish kitten. That means you need flexible partners who are patient with your changeability. In return you reward your mates with colorful, experimental lovemaking that never bores.
As an Air sign you probably enjoy talking about your exploits before, during and after sex. It’s a huge turn on! Additionally, the more freedom you get from a lover the more satisfied and giving you become.
Once an Aquarian lover lets someone in, the sexual exchanges are wildly passionate and filled with fantasy.
Aquarius Facts & Metaphysical Associations
Dates: January 20 – February 18
Symbol: The Ram
Key Phrase: “I Know”
Planet: Uranus (Saturn)
Birthstone: Garnet (January); Amethyst (February)
Number Vibration: Numerology: 8
Element: Air but with a large Water influence.
Color: Sky Blue
Chakra: Heart (Anahata)
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Tiger
Funny Chinese Zodiac Twin: Tiger
Tarot Card Association: The Star
Healing Crystals: Amethyst, Amber, Aquamarine, Garnet, Hematite, Lapis Lazuli, Turquoise
Celebrity Aquarius: Oprah Winfrey, Sarah Palin, Adam Lambert, Vanessa Redgrave, Whoopi Goldberg, Christian Bale
Aquarius Compatibility With All 12 Zodiac Signs
Aries and Aquarius
The ever adventurous Aries can rock an Aquarian’s world both inside and out of bed!
Both of you have a lot of passion for life and freedom, and certainly have all the dynamics to make a run for this relationship. Where you most often clash is in terms of your ideals and values. Aquarius wants to heal the world while Aries is a little more self-absorbed.
This often leads you to intense “discussions” that require compromise even if it’s agreeing to disagree.
Taurus and Aquarius
Your Aquarius soul finds the Earthy nature and frankness of a Taurus very refreshing. The only problem is that the Bull is a home body while you, dear Aquarius, are a butterfly.
In long term relationships you may find the practical, traditional approach of a Taurus just too stuffy. And this is not the only ways you differ.
Everything from food to books seems to be a point of contention. Add to that two firm stubborn streaks and it’s unlikely that this couple can make enough adaptations to work.
Gemini and Aquarius
Oooh! Aquarius did you find a great catch here!
Everything about Gemini magnetically attracts you but for their lack of a predictable nature. The Gemini’s wit, conversational ability and intelligence really speak to your spirit.
Yes there are differences, but overall this couple finds strong mutual ambitions and a very compatible outlook on life.
When focused on those commonalities this makes a great partnering filled with joy.
Cancer and Aquarius
Aquarius and Cancer can be a good match because they’re both very generous. Inside the realm of your relationship, both know how to nurture and support the other’s goals.
The main pothole in your life’s road is that the Aquarian is far more independent while Cancer wants one-on-one time.
The Crab may prove just too needy for an Aquarius to handle for the long haul.
Leo and Aquarius
In this relationship the Aquarius is constantly repeating, “lighten up.” Leo is ever the drama king or queen while Aquarius is more interested in the whole of the show.
The friendly nature of these two signs may work for play time, but the social characteristics inherent in both mean you’ll spend a lot of time apart.
It’s hard to create intimacy, let alone find a middle ground where your differences settle out.
Virgo and Aquarius
The Aquarius and Virgo coupling works better as a friendship.
You two can talk all day long and never run out of topics. However, there’s no question that you have a Grand Canyon filled with differences. Aquarius has big ideas where Virgo is more focused and formal.
Unless there are other Astrological factors, these two don’t have a great love life either.
Libra and Aquarius
Rise and Shine you two love birds!
An Aquarius and Libra match is one made in heaven. There is an ease about being with one another that’s difficult to describe – its like a harmonic conversion of two souls who have “true love” written in their design.
Aquarius you’ve found an intellectual equal here, and one who enjoys your activity level. Better still, you got a devoted friend (your favorite kind of relationship!) that relates to you on various levels
Scorpio and Aquarius
The adventurous, mystical Scorpio catches your Aquarian eye particularly when you’re looking to have a good time. When you play together it’s like saying yes to life. You make each other smile.
There are some parts of this relationship that are on two sides of the world apart. Your Scorpio runs on instinct while you trust your mind. It’s like trying to run an AC powered heart on DC energy.
As a result, even with all the sparks flying between you physically this one may be tough to resolve.
Sagittarius and Aquarius
If we were to sum up the Aquarius and Sagittarius relationship the key word would be stimulating.
Your social and artistic interests match like bread and butter. When Aquarius gets caught up in a whirlwind of activity, Sagittarius gives them greater direction and purpose to the brouhaha.
Since you’re both independent there’s no worry about freedom and when you do come together on projects the result is very satisfying.
Capricorn and Aquarius
Meh! You admire the Capricorn’s aptitude for focus but cannot imagine being so meticulous about everything including socks! Aquarians are the bare foot kids of the Universe while Capricorns are terminally practical.
The lack of spontaneity really undermines the potential in this relationship.
You could, however, become friends (even friends with benefits) and learn important traits from each other.
Aquarius and Aquarius
The bond in an Aquarius and Aquarius relationship is immediate and strong as super glue. You fully understand each other and your need to keep things casual at first.
Most likely your first few dates will be social outings of organizational affairs where you’ll spend hours discussing various elements. The challenge in this relationship is warming it up.
Aquarians can be aloof, so you two have to work on that element often daily.
Pisces and Aquarius
You probably met at some philosophical discussion or academic affair, both being attracted to intellectual pursuits. Interestingly enough, both Aquarius and Pisces are dreamers too. You naturally facilitate the visionary in each other.
The problem here is putting down solid foundations. Additionally sometimes your communication suffers from Piscean subjective views parsed against your neutrality.
Overall you may find a Pisces partner too needy for you.