She elicits an air of unmistakable mystery, so you know she’s a Scorpio Woman. She makes men turn their head when she walks by. All stand curious about what that fiery Scorpio woman got that makes the heart quicken; the pupils dilate slightly, and the mouth goes dry before any one of them can utter a word. Most men fear to approach this intriguing breath of fresh air. She’s just too damn sexy to be in their league. For most, they are probably right!
The Scorpio Woman
Her Traits & Personality In Love, Compatibility & Life
The Scorpio Woman is discerning. If you don’t meet up to her expectations, she might make you the victim of a broken heart. Fulfill her whims, and you’ve got one hell of spicy partner on your hands!
Get to know her and see her wisdom. It hides behind the most intense of stares, and watch as you end up mesmerized by some spell only the Scorpio woman can weave! In tune with her animal nature, she loves being in love, and she loves sex too. Whew! You’re in for the time of your life if you’ve fallen for a Scorpio Woman and she chooses to pick you up off the floor.
Think you have what it takes to keep this sensual, insatiable Scorpio woman satisfied?
Scorpio Woman Table of Contents
- Scorpio Woman
- In Love & In Bed
- Traits, Personality, Characteristics
- How to Attract a Scorpio Woman
- Dating a Scorpio Woman
- Best Gifts
- Facts, Mythology, & Metaphysics
- Back to all Zodiac Signs
The key to understanding the oh so complex nature of a Scorpio Woman is to know that two planetary influences rule this mysterious soul. The dualistic influence that sometimes works in tandem and sometimes opposes one another. Want to know how this woman still is so unpredictable and mysterious? She is ruled by both Mars and Pluto simultaneously!
Mars is a planet so named after the god of war in the Roman pantheon, and these attributes to the fiery aspects of the Scorpio Woman. The planet also makes the woman ambitious, and one more than capable of determining her own destiny. She is highly reliant on the self which pleases her greatly because she does not want anyone to hold rule over her in any way.
Meanwhile, Pluto’s energies give that ultra-air of mystery to this lovely lady friend of yours. She will have innate psychic abilities at her fingertips and pour forth an air of magic. She is in tune with universal energies, the cosmos, and she may even pursue spiritual pursuits that further enhance the connection. Pluto’s energies make this female one that has no problem keeping secrets or remaining quiet about her future. He ability to remain silent gives her the edge over others because it leaves her with the element of surprise.
A Scorpio Woman may experience the occasional state of confusion or the inability to concentrate. She attributes the issue to brain fog. The truth is it’s a clash between Mars’ fast-paced, action-oriented, sometimes aggressive energies with Pluto’s calm and slow but sure approach.
Scorpio Woman In Love & In Bed
(Venus in Scorpio)
The Scorpio Woman will come close to having an insatiable desire for sex. But, she will see it as part of her regular health regime to enjoy the passions of another on a near regular basis. In fact, the women under this sign are more sexually active than women under any other sign: Passion runs through their veins, and their fiery nature makes them a fierce lover. If she is in love, she can be gentle, compassionate and tender, but if she simply fancies you, she has no problem having a casual encounter or two just to relieve a bit of sexual tension and some stress.
She will demand to take the lead in the bedroom, and she may have a bit more kink than the average person can handle. Don’t let it surprise you if she dons on the attire of a dominatrix when you finally make it to the bedroom because once you are in her bedchamber, this hot seductress will make it more than clear who is the boss.
The Scorpio Woman
Her Traits, Personality, Characteristics
The Scorpio woman is an exotic temptress, but her personality goes well beyond her physical attractiveness and sexual attractions. She is all woman, all serious, and you must be prepared to take her that way. You will find she has an amazing intellect, a sharp wit, and more than a keen understanding of the world around her. She is in full control of who she allows in her reality, as her motto is “I DESIRE,” and she lives by it to the fullest.
If she approves of you, then you can partake of her world, but you will be expected to tread lightly and not to overstep your boundaries. Of boundaries, you’ll have no trouble knowing what they are because she will make them clear. She will present her wants and needs in clear black and white terms.
You will find she is amazingly insightful, and she has no trouble seeing through most people. She relies heavily on her intuition. She is driven, ambitious and goal-oriented, and has little trouble accomplishing whatever she sets out to do. She can prove a bit on the stubborn side, and sometimes.
Because she has little fear, she can get caught up in things that might not otherwise be to her best benefit. She is not very trusting so you will have to earn both her loyalty and trust before she even thinks about sharing her innermost feelings with you.
Hearth & Home
When you enter the home of a Scorpio Woman, there is no mistake about where you are; after all, you have just entered the temple of the goddess, or at least it will seem that way. The Scorpio Woman has an exceptional taste for the luxurious, rich, posh, comfortable, and her home is her temple or sacred space, which will also clearly reflect her fiery personality. As if she has the goddesses of love and war as her patron goddesses, there are items in the home that signify both her compassionate and warrior-like nature. You might expect to see animal prints, rugs, skins, and pelts.
A clear sign she connects deep with her animal nature, but you will also find super comfortable furnishings, lots of pillows and comfortable nooks, all of which she has included in the décor so she can achieve absolute comfort while relaxing–this is her form of self-nurturing.
The colors of the designs in her home will feature a theme of black and white as this relates to how she likes to express herself: In black and white terms absent of any ambiguities. Every level of red will appear somewhere in the home. Red is often in the bedroom where the heat can really rise if you end up being the right partner for her. She may complement red with other fiery colors as well, with a nice mix of orange, yellow, royal blue, and fiery green.
In the kitchen, you can expect to find every modern doodad, gadget, appliance, and tool imaginable; she likes modern designs, and conveniences technology affords her. If the appliances are not red, black, or white, they will most certainly be of shiny stainless steel to express her preference for the modern and elegant. Her abode is likely to be a small private home where she can enjoy her temple space in peace without the intrusion of the world outside.
Health & Well-Being
The Scorpio sign holds the anatomical rulership of the genitals and the reproductive organs; this makes the Scorpio Woman more likely to develop issues or complications with the uterus, fallopian tubes, menses, menopause, and other issues affecting women specifically. Issues with hormone imbalances are also likely. To the Scorpio Woman you will find sex important, not just because of the endorphins, dopamine rush, and feel good scale, but because it relieves stress.
Of course, for your lady friend, you will find that a good old fashion romp in the hay on a regular basis is equivalent to a cardio workout. Don’t underestimate the Scorpio Woman as she can outlast any partner she fancies in the bedroom in terms of energy supply.
Scorpio Women do not let their emotions show well so they can fall prey to emotional overload. She can also be extremely tough on her own body as she demands excellence in every physical performance she engages in, particularly when she pushes herself during workouts or at work.
She enjoys a variety of exercise too, including gymnastics, dance, hiking, running, jogging, and cycling so you might find her running a marathon or two. Bear in mind that over the years the bone and joints may suffer from overuse and rough handling.
Career & Finance
Since the Scorpio Woman enjoys research and learning, but she also likes being left to her own devices without other people to get in the way while she works. Thus, the greatest career positions for the Scorpio Woman include jobs where she can fulfill tasks as a self-driven force.
A career as an embalmer, mortician, coroner, or private investigative services are just some jobs she can excel in all while enjoying the silence she craves while she works. She enjoys being in her own head as it allows her to enter a meditative state as she loses herself in the work she completes.
If she works with people, she needs to be in some leadership role, or she needs to feel as if she is in a position of control. She will make a fantastic Sex Therapist or counselor, and she is brilliant enough to succeed as a doctor. This being the case, one would be hard pressed to try to beat her in any suit or case in a court of law if she takes up the job of attorney or prosecutor.
The Scorpio Woman has considerable writing skills so she would make a fantastic journalist, writer, author (particularly in the horror genre), or she would even make for a great tutor since it would put her in authority where she could share her vast knowledge with another. She is also into esoteric studies and the metaphysical; so, do not be surprised if you find the Scorpio woman working as a psychic, Tarot reader, or even as a professional astrologer.
How to Attract a Scorpio Woman
The Scorpio Woman loves putting on an air of mystery, and she is equally attracted to such energies. If you keep some secrets about yourself and you leave her wanting to know more when she meets you, you will pique her interests for sure. If you gain her attention, you will do best if you remain loyal, honest, true, forthright, and authentic.
Do not pretend to be someone you are not as she will catch on and be quite angry at the attempt to deceive her. She will cut you off in a heartbeat and move onto the next individual she feels worthy of her attention. Let her have her space, mind your boundaries, and remember that she oversees herself and the direction of the relationship.
Dating a Scorpio Woman
The Scorpio Woman is one that loves to compete against others. So, if there is a competitive element involved in the pastime in question, the female ruled by this fiery, forceful Sun Sign is all in–consider sports of every possible kind – potential interest for your Scorpio lady friend. Activities she enjoys include marathons, gymnastics, dance competitions, local races, basketball, baseball, and car racing (seeing it has that adrenaline rush that comes every time she steps on the gas). She cannot help but love the“badass” feeling. As she blasts by each car on the race track, she knows full well the finish line is only hers to cross.
The Scorpio Woman is one who absolutely hates discussing her past or her personal life, so prying is not a good idea. Those who are disloyal, unfair, mean, liars, thieves, or who would otherwise harm her or her loved ones, are all on the “no place in my life list” for the Scorpio Woman. This powerful personality also has on room for people who choose to cave to their fears, weakness, or who make excuses for things instead of trying to conquer their demons. Of those who accept mediocrity, again the Scorpio Woman has no patience for, and if someone betrays her, the relationship is over, completely, and instantly.
Best Match for the Scorpio Woman
Friends and Family
If you want to be friends with a female who is ruled by the sign of Scorpio, you must be genuine, truthful, and always on the up and up. If you fit the bill, you have a loyal, committed and dedicated friend for a lifetime. She will be there whenever you need a helping hand and will come to your defense like a warrior might.
If you want her advice, make sure you want the real answers to what you are asking her; she holds nothing back and will say the truth even if it might hurt you. She does not beat around the bush, play games, or dance around what needs to be heard. The Scorpio Woman will feel as if she is telling you for your own good and will expect you to accept the advice she doles out gracefully whether you like it or not.
Never lie to a Scorpio Woman or that is the end of the relationship. She is a grudge holder, and she will not forgive such a transgression. She had just as soon cut you out of her life and leave you on an abrupt note than look at you again if you have been disloyal, cheated, lied, or hurt her.
In terms of a family, she is fiercely loyal. She will let out vengeance yet unseen by the likes of man if anyone dares harm someone who is blood-related. She is proud of her heritage, close to her siblings, and she may rebel against her parents in the earliest years of her life. But she keeps the utmost respect for her family elders.
For the Scorpio Woman who is looking for balance in the emotional, spiritual, physical, and financial aspects, there is no partner better than a comfort-loving, compassionate, sexy Taurus. Of course, every next-to-perfect relationship is not without potential issues.
With these two sun signs, jealousy, stubbornness, and fiery temperaments warn of disagreements of epic proportion… but… both the Scorpio Woman and her Taurus companion will certainly more than appreciate the makeup sex following their time together on the relationship battlefield.
The Cancer partner is an ideal match for the demanding Scorpio Woman as a love affair between the two is genuine, deep, and sweet. If there are any disagreements between this pair, the jets are cooled very fast, and the Scorpio Woman serves as a major motivator for the moody Cancer partner.
Meanwhile, the Cancer partner can easily relate and empathize with the Scorpio’s darker moods and gloomy moments. A Capricorn has just the right amount of interest, spice, personality, and aloofness to mirror the desires and attributes of the Scorpio Woman. This natural go-with-the-flow action is an ideal setting for friendship, love, and marriage.
Aquarius and Scorpio are not a good mix, each being far too independent to come together as a couple effectively. Too many chiefs here make it impossible for the relationship to run smoothly. The Pisces partner will also find troubles with a Scorpio pairing. Possessiveness and jealousy are run rampant between the two, given little time for love and affection to present itself for very long.
An Aries partner is just not a great match for the Scorpio Woman. Both people fall under the under the rule of Mars and demand to be in the lead. While the sex in the bedroom can prove unforgettable, the relationship has little to no chance of surviving.
The Scorpio Woman matched up with a Gemini partner is a relationship that really promises little success. The long-term Scorpio’s green-eyed possessive monster will not be at all happy to not have a sense of control in the relationship.
If you are a Leo and you are even thinking about striking up a match with a fiery Scorpio, you will be bringing two beings with fiery natures together. This match equals lust, passion, and desire; but there are too many clashing personality traits for it to equal love.
Opposite of the Leo Scorpio combo is the Leo Virgo pairing which puts a couple together in the day-to-day scenarios. But, this combo is like mixing the Virgo’s “virgin” with the “devilish” tastes of a female ruled by the Scorpio Sun Sign.
Put a Scorpio Woman with another Scorpio partner together and you have just ignited a ball of fire that threatens to form another Sun in this Universe. They will be attracted to each other based on sheer commonalities that will also threaten to tear the relationship asunder. Oh, but oh my… the bedroom antics, reminiscent of Fifty Shades of Grey, and Fifty Shades Darker, will prove nothing short of legendary!
Libras are social, and Scorpios just do not like sharing, so jealousy is a monster that can pay a visit or two to this pairing from time to time. The Scorpio woman will get angry and the Libra partner, super sensitive to emotions, will take all that venomous fury to heart.
If the couple can overcome jealousy and learn how to communicate effectively without triggering emotional injuries, the passion can run deep, and the commitment can prove lasting. Sagittarius and Scorpio have similar problems–the Scorpio Woman demands completely loyalty and attention, and the Sagittarius wants to run free among friends. No amount of fun or laughter can bring these two together in a harmonious way.
Astrology & Zodiac Gifts
Since the Scorpio Woman enjoys all things mysterious, a simple gift might be a pair of dark designer sunglasses. The glasses let her cast her deep, wise eyes in the shadows. It is an accessory that will always go well with the air of mystery she exudes. Scorpios woman are also into some intriguing reading subjects too; consider esoteric topics and books on the power of intention, the occult, or Agatha Christie mysteries are just for starts. If you buy her attire, go with black, white, red, or fiery color combinations, and in her private life, she will more than appreciate seductive attire.
Facts, Mythology, & Metaphysics
This Sun Sign’s backstory stems from the Greek mythos and relates the tale of Orion. The earth-goddess Gaia calls out a huge scorpion named Scorpius and orders the creature to take the life of Orion. Another story loosely links the tale of the self-consuming Phoenix, who is consumed by its own generated flames and burned down to nothing but ash. However, the creature experiences a rebirth and literally rises from the very ashes produced by its initial, fiery physical presentation.
The Death Card aligns with the Sun Sign of Scorpio: A card signifying transformation, unavoidable change, and an inescapable metamorphosis. The Scorpio Woman is one that is constantly undergoing personal changes and working toward improving her body and mind.
Numerology links the number nine with this zodiac sign, as the number corresponds with loyalty, discretion, destiny, the visionary, and self-love. The number is also aligned with a separation from the world and/or the self, and the absence of focus; it corresponds to the solar plexus as the natural wheel of energy rules confidence, temperament control, and personal judgment.
Dates: October 23–November 22
Glyph Meaning: The scorpion and its tail.
Sanskrit: Vṛścika, meaning “Scorpion.”
Key Phrase: “I DESIRE.”
Anatomical Rulership: Reproduction, hemoglobin, and sex organs
Animals: Panther, wolf, and scorpion
Dream Archetype: Trickster, chaotic force, death, and monster
Balancing Quality: Expanding horizons, opening of the mind
Birds: Vulture and Eagle
Celtic Tree of the Month: Ivy (September 30 through October 27) and Reed (October 28–November 24)
Meaning of the Celtic Tree: Warrior and the Secret Keeper
Chakra: Solar Plexus or Manipura
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Pig/Boar
Compatibility: Pisces and Cancer
Detriment: Earth and Venus
Funny Chinese Zodiac Twin: Pig/Boar
Planet’s Exaltation: Uranus
Feminine Deities: Selket, Freya, Hel, and Sekhmet
Flower: Geranium, Anemone, Hyacinth, and Geranium
Healing Crystals: Topaz, Jet, Jasper, Ruby, Malachite, and Bloodstone
Herbs: Fern, Silverwood, Heather, and Basil
Masculine Deities: Ares, Mars, Apep
Metal: Steel, Iron, and Radium
Musical Sound: G
Number Vibrations: 9
Oils: Sandalwood, Jasmine, Sage, ylang-ylang, clary, and patchouli
Planetary influence: Pluto (current), Mars (archaic)
Primary Colors: Dark Red
Secondary Colors: Brown, violet, and blue
Primary Need: Transformation, Permeate, Penetrate
Scents: Vanilla, Watermelon, Rosemary, and Cypress
Seasonal Association: Fall
Tarot Card Associations: The Tower and Death
Trees: Redwood, Blackthorn, and Holly
Celebrities: Hillary Clinton, Marie Curie, Anne Hathaway, Katy Perry, Julia Roberts, Jamie Lee Curtis, and Jodie Foster.