Does this sound like the woman you are falling for and fast? Then you have it bad for a Gemini, and you are in for one hell of a ride … that’s in a good way of course! The Gemini Woman has a zodiac sign signifying duality. It is a concept expressing who this lovely female is regarding personality. She is both brilliant and bold, wild and controlled, and she can switch from one to the other extreme in a millisecond or less! So quickly your Gemini Gal can change her thoughts, plans, or mind!
So, are you ready for a curious and witty woman or two? It will seem like you’re dating two different women, especially when you pair up with a lovely, intelligent Gemini!
The Gemini Woman
Her Traits & Personality In Love, Compatibility & Life
Let’s face it; the first time you encountered her with her bubbly, joyous personality and her gift for words, you fell for her. She has wisdom in eyes well beyond her years, which seems to demand respect. All in an instant, she’s like a bubbly playful child. Her airy nature causes her to examine all the world through a lens of wonder and a curious eye. It is here she lives up to her motto, “I THINK.”
Gemini Woman Table of Contents
- Gemini Woman
- In Love & In Bed
- Traits, Personality, Characteristics
- How to Attract a Gemini Woman
- Dating a Gemini Woman
- Best Gifts
- Facts, Mythology, & Metaphysics
- Back to all Zodiac Signs
The planet Mercury governs over Gemini women, and this astrological body corresponds with many masculine deities across several cultures and pantheons. In ancient Egypt, the planet corresponds with the syncretic deity Hermes Trismegistus, which is a combination of the Greek god Hermes and god Thoth of Egypt. The word “Trismegistus” means, thrice great. You might also see deity references like Mercurius ter Maximus, Mercury or even Enoch: All reference Hermes, the messenger god, patron of merchants, and the one who rules all boundaries.
One look at the icon standing for the Sun Sign of Gemini and it is at once clear that the Gemini Woman is one who will express her personal boundaries with clarity. But, she is also one who will push boundaries to the absolute limit just to see how far she can go. Gemini females’ characteristics include remarkable flexibility, the ability to conform as well as transform.
She is one who is a master of communication: Any man who meets her is likely to be more than impressed with her incredible eloquence. Additional areas in which Mercury casts its influence include doorways, travel, merchants, business, curiosity, the sciences, and the way in which your Gemini gal thinks. Mercury influences the mind and conveys deep wisdom and philosophical thinking on those it influences.
Gemini Woman In Love & In Bed
(Venus in Gemini)
When it comes to both love and sex, the Gemini female is the epitome of what it means to be spontaneous. She likes adventure and romance all mingled into one, and if a relationship is lacking in lively spark or any kind of spontaneity, she’ll fly the coop.
Possessive partners will find a relationship with a Gemini woman will end in ruin: She cannot be owned, captured, possessed, or trained. You must accept her, her friends, family, and whatever package deal she comes with too. Consider this connection as the hook, line, and sinker! When you fall for a Gemini woman, you love EVERYTHING about her, even that which is she closely connected to as she sees these things as an extension of herself!
Gemini women aren’t one for staying in one place long so if you live with her make plans to travel. A LOT. Traveling will fill her need for airiness and taking flight, and a bit of escaping from reality will satiate her cravings for continuous adventure. If you are insecure in any way, cast all doubts aside now. Insecurity is a problem just waiting to happen, you’re falling for one of the most social women in all the zodiac.
You cannot get jealous every time you see her interacting with someone else … that’s a formula for madness for sure! Not to worry if your Gemini lady returns your affections you are her one and only. She remains loyal. When the Gemini Woman finds the one she’s been looking for her entire life: One who can captivate her mind, capture her heart, and fill her soul with joy, she only has eyes for that individual.
The Gemini Woman
Her Traits, Personality, Characteristics
Living life to the fullest: That’s what is it all about for the female born under the Gemini sign! She’ll take you along for the ride and adventure with her, that is provided you’ve got the guts and stamina to keep up with her! At first, you might have trouble keeping up as the Gemini woman. She never lingers too long doing one thing or experiencing another.
Life is short, time is fleeting, and the Gemini woman lives life with the constant ticking of the clock sounding off in her head. You might look at her and see her acting like a butterfly. It’s as if she is moving from one lovely flower to another. Others who are not looking through the rose-colored glasses of affection may view her more like the hurried, impatient, racing white rabbit in Lewis Carroll’s Alice in Wonderland! No matter what observational lens you view the Gemini woman through, what is most noticeable is her incessant curiosity: This idea is captured in her motto: “I THINK.”
Talk and talk and talk some more … you’ll get some intense conversations out of this eloquent woman. She loves to interact with others, and she’ll happily take the lead in just about every conversation. If she is a bit out of balance with her energies, she may withdraw from the conversation.
She might also talk as if she were talking at you rather than to you. How will you know the difference? So glad you asked: You’ll know when the conversation seems one way with others or her words and thoughts seem to be the only thing bearing weight or import. Gemini women are people who love to experience all that life offers. The Gemini Woman’s motto, “I think,” has them in the constant pursuit of knowledge, whether that is an academic setting or in life’s arena.
She’s happy enough to gain knowledge, even in the school of hard knocks. Either way, when you talk to a Gemini Woman, she’ll “speak your language.” In other words, she will make you feel quite comfortable conversing with her. Why? She is Queen of the conversationalists!
All you need to do is allow her to take the lead and you’re off and running. Even better, you will never run out of intriguing things to talk about because Gemini Women have minds that make them ideal players of games like Trivial Pursuit. With the bits of amazing knowledge, the Gemini female retains, she would certainly make an exceptional tutor or educator.
She is well-rounded, calm, and elegant on one side of the extreme, the Gemini Woman’s opposite extreme has her growing bored with the status quo way to easily. When dealing with boredom, the Gemini female is more likely to discover herself a bit of mischief, and she may experience anxiety, nervousness, or even become a bit strung out from stress.
If your Gemini female manages to get her shadow side under control, she may prove creative. She may even demonstrate some serious artistic tendencies: encouraging these attributes is important as it is a way for your Gemini woman to self-explore, expand her horizons, and control her anxious and stressful moods, through creative endeavors she can deal with emotions in a safe environment, absent of things that might get her into mischief.
Hearth & Home
In the home, the Gemini Woman is likely to switch up the modern interior style with brand new themes, colors, and furnishings. Her taste for decor is not based on seasonal or yearly changes. Rather, pretty much whenever the whim strikes her fancy determines decor theme. With her love of life, color, and comfort, she’ll enjoy all the remarkable possibilities regarding interior design.
She makes sure there is a little reading nook for all her favorite books, but she’ll also make sure the home is a welcoming environment for friends and family. Her ever social nature promises us lovely dining engagements, parties, and opportunities to socialize whenever in a home where the female head of household is a Gemini.
Gemini women love to discuss every aspect of the household. They’ll talk about how it is run, feeling that open discourse contributes to the greater good of all who are living under one roof. If she becomes overly talkative, this is a cue that she is feeling ignored and is looking for someone to acknowledge her voice as one of import. Be sure to tune into what she has to say when she speaks. This is a woman who won’t be ignored for too long, at least not without consequence.
Health & Well-Being
With their continual need for conversation or downright chattiness, it’s no surprise that anatomical rulership of the Gemini includes the lungs, bronchi, trachea, thymus gland and the breath. The sign also rules over the humerus (upper arm bone), scapula (shoulder blade), and the vocal cords. This double sign is prone to having more than one illness, so co-morbidity in the Gemini female is high. Gemini women can suffer from respiratory conditions, and health issues affecting the throat, breathing, and in some cases, psychological issues related to anxiety, restlessness, or nervousness arise.
Career & Finance
Regarding career choice, the Gemini Woman may struggle to buckle down with just one career. Instead, may change jobs until she feels she is working in a job she is passionate about: A job where she can wake up in the morning and not have to drag her butt out of bed and force herself to go to every day. Here friendliness, wit, smarts, and adaptability make it all too easy for the Gemini Woman to shift from one job to the next.
With her tremendous skills in communication, it is likely her job will focus on this area. Some employment options might include working for a phone service, becoming a tutor or educator, lawyer, doctor, counselor, and her interests in extremes might find her interested in conditions affecting the mind, like psychology or psychiatry. Gemini women are also excellent with their hands, and they make excellent painters, sculptors, quilters, sewers, graphic designers, interior designers, and the like.
At the same time, their taste for the new, exciting, and unusual might have them interested in the art of illusion and sleight of hand magic tricks. Finally, converting their conversationalist talents into song and music makes them ideal singers, poets, songwriters, and musicians.
How to Attract a Gemini Woman
If you are looking to be attractive to a Gemini female, you need to be full of excitement, flexible, adaptable, and easy going. You will also want to keep her attention by introducing regular changes to the otherwise routine parts of the relationship. Gemini women get bored fast. They need to experience change versus stagnation: It is as if they are souls attracted to all that is moving, in motion, and ALIVE. It is this movement that makes them feel most alive. It is what they crave whenever they seem to be off on a yet another tangent in search of excitement, fun, and newness.
Make sure you do not get in a routine rut, or she is likely to take flight. Movies one date, dinner another, a theme park another, and a camping excursion the next getaway–switch it up and you will keep her engaged. The last thing you want to do is to become predictable: Spontaneity goes a long way with the Gemini Woman.
Let her know she is beautiful. Admire her regularly. Show her you are mindfully aware of how she cares for herself: If you are in a romantic relationship with you, she’s likely trying to impress you, at least a bit! She’ll swoon when you continuously flirt too! Oh, and playing hard to get every so often doesn’t hurt either; You will be a novelty, and she’ll happily take up the chase to pursue you. Finally, don’t forget to make her laugh on a regular basis; your sense of humor is your greatest asset, especially with this master conversationalist and witty, imaginative woman.
Dating a Gemini Woman
Chatting, conversing, and philosophical or thought-provoking conversations are a main dish for the Gemini woman. Having a family and friend surrounding her and attending social events is another enjoyable pastime for the woman born under this sign. She enjoys her independence, freedom, travel, reading, and forever pressing boundaries to see how far she can go. The Gemini Woman also likes to challenge herself to go further than ever before in whatever endeavor she undertakes. She likes genuine, sincere, easy going people and an atmosphere promoting freedom, free thinking, and the recognition of one’s personal space.
Gemini Woman, although prone to extremes, do not care to see others prone to the same types of extremes. It is as she is seeking out a stabilizing medium in her life. And once achieves balance, she’s in the relationship for the long haul. If you are duplicitous, disingenuous, or insincere, the all-too-wise Gemini Woman will see right through you. She acknowledges the shortness of this lifetime. She knows how important it is important not to waste it on bitter people who refuse to step beyond their own self-imposed restrictions to seek out the happiness their heart continues to crave. She also dislikes aggression, lying and any kind of relationship that threatens to take her freedom away.
Best Match for the Gemini Woman
Friends & Family
Gemini woman form friendships quickly and with considerable ease: Since they are prone to extremes in mood and thinking, they can appeal to a broader audience of friends so her initial base of friends will seem larger than most. Bear in mind that friends considered acquaintances and those considered besties are two different groups within the mind of the Gemini female, who will demonstrate a deeper connection with a handful of her closest friends.
As a teenager, she may seem flighty or fickle as she explores boundaries and discovers who she is and who she wants to be. Intelligent, a thinker tried and true, she makes for an excellent student and gets along with most siblings or classmates/peers well, although she might occasionally clash with a Pisces or Scorpio ruled sibling, all in all, she remains close to her immediate family members.
If you want to remain friends with a Gemini female, you’ve got to be true, loyal, and genuine. It will not take long for her to grow a distaste for the unauthentic and then move on to something better. Remember the butterfly analogy? One sniff of a storm brewing and the butterfly is off to find a more pleasant and safe environment.
She is ruled by a mutable zodiac sign, so she adapts well, but that’s only if she really wants to adjust. Oh, and by the way, this butterfly is indeed social, so you’ll need to be willing to share her with other friends! She will not tolerate jealousy among those she holds most dear.
While the sign of Gemini stands for opposing forces, the sign of Libra represents the balance of such forces. Thus, the Sun Sign is best for bring Gemini together and serving as a pillar supporting the balanced stability of the individual born under the Gemini sign. The forward-thinking, progressive Aquarius makes for a great partner for the Gemini because Aquarius is one who rules the novel, new, and innovative:
All things proving attractive to the Gemini Woman, and Aries, with its need for newness and action, can make for a great partner, especially in the adventurous department. Leos are also attractive to her, at least at first. The attraction is due to the regal aura of those born under the sign. But, the constant demand for attention the Leo has may lead down a road to jealousy, disagreements, and relationship ruin.
While not necessarily a clash, the Cancer and Gemini are not necessarily well-suited. Cancer can be moody, brooding, and hard to get out of one’s shell. Whereas the Gemini is no wallflower: A good friendship yes, but a relationship leading to anything long-term romantically is unlikely. Virgo might clash with the Gemini Woman too, especially when being too demanding or trying to tie her down too quickly.
The Gemini Woman who is flighty, a free-spirit, and ready to roam the world or who demands continual change is no combo for the needy control stemming of Scorpio. Even worse, the fast-changing Gemini Woman may demonstrate a want, for one thing, one day and the desire for something else the next. The fast-changing action may seem like a bait and switch to the Scorpio-ruled partner.
Astrology & Zodiac Gifts
When gift buying for the Gemini Woman, you’ll have little trouble doing so. She loves to learn so reading is one of her favorite pastimes. Get her the latest best-selling book in her favorite genre or introduce her to a genre she has little familiarity with; either way, it pleases her to have another book to dive into, and you might entice her with a genre that is new to her.
Giving her spontaneous, “just because” gifts any time of year will prove the most memorable gifts you give her. If you do buy the “usual” gifts for any occasion, switching up how you present the gift and making its presentation surprising in some way will win her heart. For example, instead of just handing her a love letter tape it to the car steering wheel. Or, pop in some inflated balloons and a few long stem roses on the front seat of her car a few hours before she wakes in the morning. Watch her swoon when she goes to get into the car to go to work! Keep it spontaneous and unexpected always!
Facts, Mythology, & Metaphysics
In the Roman pantheon, there is the dual-faced god Janus. One face looks to the left, which relates to the past and the other to the right or the future. He is the god who rules the ending of one year and the beginning of another, boundaries, and the things to come. In this way, the Gemini female is also about one who is all about setting boundaries, exploring them, and breaking them at will. Gemini is a zodiac that links easily to any mythos in which twins are present. The sign, therefore, stands for things connected yet opposing: Stories of the inseparability of Castor and Polydeuces, and even stories of Hercules and Apollo are connected to this zodiac.
This Sun Sign might also relate to the story of how the Greek sky god and ruler of the 12 Olympians, Zeus, fearing the true power and strength of humans, cut the beings in half. According to Greek myth, humans were once a single being with two heads and four limbs. The story goes on to describe how we forever longed to be joined with our other half. The story attempts to explain our eternal search for our companion, our soulmate, or wholeness within ourselves.
In the Tarot, the Lovers corresponds to the sign of Gemini. In the Rider-Waite deck, Adam and Eve stand in the Garden of Eden by the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil. The couple represents the masculine and feminine forces and duality of the Gemini sign. It also represents the craving for knowledge so common in those born under this Sun Sign. The Sun Sign relates to the Devil (when energies are negatively influenced,) and the Suit of Swords in the minor arcana.
With the sign of Gemini relating to the Lovers in the Tarot, there’s no surprise the sign also corresponds with Anahata or the Heart Chakra. The Sun Sign relates to emotions of all degrees and extremes. The number five is the corresponding numerological aspect of Gemini. The number symbolizes the combination of all the elements, the spirit, and Akasha: It, therefore signifies wholeness.
Gemini Dates: May 22nd – June 20th
Symbol: The Twins
Glyph Meaning: The Roman Numeral for “Two” and the glyph depicts two wood pieces bound tight.
Sanskrit: Mithuna, meaning “The Pair.”
Key Phrase: “I think.”
Anatomical Rulership: The shoulders, lungs, hands, collarbone, bronchial tubes, and arms
Angel: The Archangel Raphael
Animals: Magpie, Squirrel, Serpent, Horse, Butterfly, and Dog
Dream Archetype: The Anima and Animus, Divine Couple, and The Lovers
Balancing Quality: Intense thought, inward reflection, and action
Birds: Parrots, Finches, and Eagles
Birthstones: Pearl, Agate, Tourmaline, and Topaz.
Celtic Tree of the Month: Hawthorn (May 13–June 9) and Oak (June 10–July 7)
Meaning of the Celtic Tree: The Illusionist and The Strong One.
Chakra: Anahata or “The Heart Chakra.”
Chinese Zodiac Twin: Horse
Compatibility: Libra and Aquarius
Detriment: Sagittarius or Pisces
Planet’s Exaltation: North Node
Feminine Deities: Artemis, Bast, Sekhmet, Isis and Nephthys, and Freyja
Flower: Lavender and Lily of the Valley, Iris, Snap Dragon, and Orchids.
Gender: Masculine, Positive, Projective
Healing Crystals: Agate, Emerald, Tiger Eye, Peridot, Citrine, Aquamarine, Diamond, Jade, Iceland Spar, Onyx, Peridot, Topaz, and Tourmaline
Herbs: Marjoram, Vervain, Lemon Verbena, Parsley, Eyebright, Lemon Grass, Fennel, Dill, Gladioli
Keyword: “Communication” and referencing all types of communicating including writing, speaking, and thought.
Masculine Deities: Apollo, Dionysus, Loki, Mercury, Janus, Castor and Pollux, and Hermes; also, Zeus in respect to the division of one being into two.
Metal: Mercury/Quicksilver, Platinum, and Aluminum
Musical Sound: Key of E
Number Vibrations: 5
Oils: Jasmine, Mastic, Orchid or Sandalwood
Planetary influence: Mercury
Primary Colors: White, Yellow, and Orange
Secondary Colors: Light Blue, Orange White, and Yellow
Primary Need: Communication and the Sharing of Knowledge
Scents: Wormwood, Sandalwood, Jasmine
Seasonal Association: Spring
Tarot Card Associations: The Lovers, The Devil (when energies are negatively influenced,) and the Suit of Swords in the minor arcana.
Trees: “Elder be the Lady’s Tree.”
Celebrities: Angela Jolie, Naomi Campbell, Marilyn Monroe, Nicole Kidman, and Natalie Portman.